After my first "kiss issue" in a school play, I came up with a procedure that has largely headed off such problems ever since. When a play contains a kiss that is necessary to the story, and when that kiss really needs to be seen by the audience, I ask on the audition form if the students
and their parents would be comfortable with the student kissing another cast member, whomever that might be. Students who say yes can be considered for the role(s) in question, while those who say no are considered for other roles. I even explain to them that neither choice is "good" or "bad" - that all actors make choices about lines that they will or won't cross in order to accept roles.
About including the parents on this: I do that because that very first kiss issue came up with a girl who had no problem kissing a boy onstage. Her parents
did have a problem with it, and they only contacted me a couple of days before our opening to object to the kiss. (To be fair, they may not have known about it any earlier.) They also weren't happy with my proposal to fake the kiss, because this was a matter of a religious practice where their daughter could not show that kind of affection in public. Since this was Elaine happily accepting Mortimer's marriage proposal at the end of
Arsenic and Old Lace, the kiss was rather important to the story, and to the emotional vibe of the moment.
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Jeff Grove
Theatre Teacher, Aesthetics Department Chair
Stanton College Prep
FL
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Original Message:
Sent: 01-11-2023 19:16
From: Melanie Duke
Subject: Sleeping Beauty Stage Kiss
Alright - another small town theater teacher question!
I'm directing Sleeping Beauty by Charles Way this Spring. My Sleeping Beauty and Prince do not feel comfortable having their first kisses be on stage (understandable). I'm not sure how to stage the final kiss without ruining the iconic Sleeping Beauty kiss moment. If I angle her upstage, would that work?
Any ideas welcome!
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Melanie Duke
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