Hi,
At GCS we have all grade levels, so I try to include as many as possible.
For auditions, I have a separate day for MS/HS and then for Elementary. I typically set auditions for 2 hours and if needed, I add another day. For the elementary students, I just have them sing a couple lines from a song of their choosing.
For costumes, I typically ask the younger students to provide a base costume and then purchase or build ears, tails, skirts, scarves, etc.
Be ready to be flexible. Younger kids will want to tell you all their stories and take up a lot of your time if you aren't firmly structured. Leave time for story time every once in a while during rehearsal. Keep things simple. Don't give overly difficult choreography. Teach them 1-3 songs in the show, maybe not all the group numbers. Have staff or volunteers ready to watch these kiddos when they aren't on stage.
For middle schoolers, they need to see you with lots of energy and understand clear, quick tasks to stay engaged. Allowing various students to lead in physical or vocal warm-ups is a great leadership opportunity for them.
High Schoolers should be leading any place they can in the musical. Allow them also to lead warm-ups, engage with the middle schoolers, and have their own space to be high schoolers. I have separate cast parties for the age groups as well. It can be as simple as cupcakes for the littles and a bonfire for the bigs.
Give parents all the information up front, such as costumes, fees, tshirts, ads for playbill, sponsor info, rehearsal schedule, etc. I communicate only through email.
Typically our rehearsal schedule is broken down by scene, but my elementary kids have separate rehearsals until 2 weeks before GO. That's when everyone comes together. For the Elementary only rehearsals, I don't keep them more than an hour and half, but typically only an hour. I schedule them two days in a row, then once a week moving forward.
We have also performed the show or final dress rehearsal for our elementary students so they support their peers and see how fun a show can be.
I do not allow parents to sit in on rehearsals. If you want supportive parents, give them opportunities to help with the show: painting the set, building costumes, selling concessions, bringing snacks for tech week, etc. It can cause a big distraction during rehearsal if parents are there. However, maybe schedule a dress rehearsal that parents are welcome to, that way they get a sneak peak and there really isn't time for distraction when the show is running.
These are just some things that have worked well for our program. I hope it helps!
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Heidi Brack
Theatre Teacher/Director of Fine Arts
Gaston Christian School
NC
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