Wow. Some stories here!
Thank you for starting this thread, Bruce! Just finished 'Acting on the Script,' it was awesome! Started putting it to use the following week after reading it.
And George, you never had an individual who got all upset after not being named Prop Master? :)
I've only had the one major issue with one student parent. One of those incidents when you meet the parent and you're all 'Oh, NOW it all makes sense!'
This girl had been cast as Eva Peron in 'Evita'. She was the back-up, as the other girl we cast was extremely sick and it was a little touch and go with her for a little while due to the treatments she was getting. The sick girl had worked with us previously, had proven herself reliable, and was deserving of the role.
We did three performances, which meant that one Eva would get one night, the other two. The back-up was slated for one night only, which was verbally confirmed by both and understood. I don't think the back-up ever realized why she was a back-up, as she was kind of unable to really see past herself and her own world.
Right from the beginning of the rehearsal period, the back-up did her best to poison the well, to try and show up the other, and undermine her by back-talking and spreading rumor, going as far as staging the 'theft' of her phone. The sick Eva (let's say Eva 1) spent 45 minutes with Eva 2 looking for her phone, and throughout the rehearsal process tried to defend Eva 2 from the rest of the cast, who had cottoned on to her nonsense from about day 0 and were already pretty sick and tired of it 4 weeks in. Eva 2 repaid the kindness by accusing and spreading the tale that Eva 1 had stolen her phone, as well as other unsavory rumors about Eva 1.
After this debacle, I stated very clearly to Eva 2 that I was very ready to remove her from the cast for her behavior, but was willing to let her try one more time to work through it with no more shenanigans. I also reiterated that she had the one performance. At this she looked completely shell-shocked, and started a new war with me because according to her I had promised her 2 nights, not one. This was what brought Mama bear in.
Mama bear demanded a meeting with the Principal, and essentially what happened was this:
Mama Bear spent an hour and a half berating me, my wife, my students, the school's drama program, the school's music program, the administration, God, everybody, because her child is amazing, and went to a summer theatre camp for 1 week with Berkley Prep. (I still have no idea what that means. I'm sure Berkley Prep is a wonderful institution, even if as a student you managed a whole week there). Because of how awful everybody and especially me and my wife, the most evil people in the universe (direct quote) for not following through on this promise that her child perform 2 nights out of 3. Her child was 'born for the role' and I was denying her God given gift to the world.
My Principal mostly just sat there and let me have it. In my view, there wasn't really much one could do to respond, and really there's no fixing crazy. The student withdrew from the school right there, despite my Principal trying to convince her otherwise, and after that, everybody breathed a huge sigh of relief and the cast got to enjoy the rest of the rehearsal period and the rest of the show. The atmosphere changed overnight/it was night and day/etc.
The postscript was that we had another girl step up to be the back up. Which was fortunate. Halfway through our third show, Eva 1 had to be pulled from performing further as she was really not doing well, physically. So in the end, since God has a sense of humor, the two Eva's we finished with both got equal stage time, a show and a half each. If Eva 2 had just stuck it out two more weeks...well, I dunno, I think the production succeeded much better without the aggravation and misery that her presence caused. Probably the most traumatizing experience I've had as a theatre teacher, but it all ended for the best.
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Phillip Goodchild
Theatre Arts Instructor/Assistant Department Head of English
Ruskin FL
Original Message:
Sent: 04-12-2016 09:36
From: Alicia Henning
Subject: Casting Reprisals
I had a parent who began "anonymously" sending me text messages threatening my job. She was sending them very frequently with very specific threats about contacting the superintendent and getting a group of parents together to get me fired. I had to get the school law enforcement involved. One of the officers told me what to say in my response and the texts stopped.
I also had a mother call me crying because she was worried that her child would harm himself as a result of not getting cast. She told me about how his father had died and how now that he hadn't been cast she just didn't know if we would be able to make it.
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Alicia Henning
Lexington KY