Great question. This really strikes a chord with me. I feel like I deal with it every year.
I think students go through a phase of detachment in their senior year. It typically happens after their last show or when they realize their time in our troupe is coming to an end. Regardless of how involved with the program they had been, I sense a certain unhappiness in the final couple of months. This can be expressed at castings, choice of shows, the underclassmen, our program, and often me. I use to take it personally, and it still can hurt my feelings. But I have come to think this is just the process of separation. Generally, the kids have felt vested in the program, and are sad that they are leaving the program. They don't know how to deal with this change in their lives. The way they handle the loss is what I see.
Social media has made this more difficult. There are so many great things about social media, but it also gives these students a chance to share their unhappiness with a larger audience and gain a voice. While I still don't take it personally, it is more hurtful to have this negativity expressed on social media. I'm not sure there is really an answer to this question. People can say whatever they want on their own social media. When a troupe director has nothing left to offer a student, a natural place to extend this detachment or accelerate the separation is on social media.
I have tried to caution students of posting negative things on social media (
you are always auditioning - future directors and employers could see your post - they may not go away - theatre is a small world.) I have also emphasized that these students are part of a legacy at our school. They should be proud of their work. They have built the foundation for what we do next. And I discourage them from tearing down their own work by posting disparagingly about their own program.
I think it is likely to keep happening. When I was in college, I disliked one of our guest directors. It was probably peevish and juvenile. I dropped the show as the assistant director. The head of the theatre department called me in to his office. I was also the assistant director for another guest director. The department chair took the other show away from me. It made me really mad. If I had social media at 20 years old, I am not sure what I would have posted.
I have tried to make up for dropping the show for nearly 30 years.
A couple of years ago, a former students came back to see our scene shop. The student broke down in tears and apologized for the terrible behavior they displayed as a senior. I was stunned. This student was one of my favorites. If I thought deeply about it, I probably could have come up with something they did wrong as a senior, but I really couldn't come up with anything. I told the student that they were normal and that their was no reason to still feel bad. It is my job to deal with all sorts of students behavior. The student may have felt bad about the situation, but I see it every year.
And a couple of years ago, I apologized to the director whose show I dropped. He also told me to let it go. But as a side note: this director has never cast or hired me as an adult. That might be the real lesson.
I think we need to be willing to let our seniors go through their own natural grieving process, as their time in high school comes to an end. I just think we need to work harder to help students through this change of season in their lives. We also need to continue to caution them on how to properly use social media.
I also think we could look to EdTA's Core Values in leading these discussions with our own students.
People Matter
Strive for Excellence
Work Together
Be the Person with whom You want to Work
The last one may be the most important in this situation.
------------------------------
David Tate Hastings
Olathe South High School
Thespian Troupe #5006
Kansas Thespians
Treasurer & Membership Chair
913-481-1868
------------------------------
Original Message:
Sent: 04-28-2018 15:40
From: Crit Fisher
Subject: I'm a senior, I deserve it!
Hello theatre community,
I have a question on how you all deal with this situation. We have a large and successful theatre program. We put on three shows a year (two musicals, play). We invest a lot of money in these productions so that every student actor and technician is a part of something.
We happen to have very solid theatre programs in our middle schools and they feed our high school program.
Recently, we have had this black cloud of poor behavior and unprofessionalism from some of the upper classman. They have made very negative social media posts about not getting roles. Not fair because they are a senior. They have put in their time. Underclassmen should never have leads, so on and so on.
How do you handle this?
------------------------------
Crit Fisher
Lighting/Sound Designer
New Albany High School
------------------------------