The first time I got an email like that, I went to a colleague who is older and wiser and much more experienced in these matters. She read it and said, "ok." I said, no...not ok! How do I respond. Then she asked me, "did she ask for a response?" I read it again and realized that no, the parent didn't ask for a response. She told me to not respond. So I didn't and that was the end of it.
I've continued to use that advice anytime I get what I've coined the" venting emails". So far it's been fine. I do usually forward them to my administrator with a note that since the parent hasn't asked for a repsonse, I won't be providing one, but I do want them to be aware in case the parent chooses to escalate.
As a side note, Jack's mother is one of my favorite roles in that show!
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Laura Steenson
Theatre Director
Reynolds High School
Troutdale OR
Original Message:
Sent: 11-21-2015 18:23
From: Jason Peck
Subject: Responding to a parent email . . .
ive been doing this for a while now and I don't think I've ever received an email where the sarcasm so blantnatly dripped. The email is posted below. Struggling for how to respond. A bit of context here. This is an independent private school in a very wealthy area of Connecticut. The student is a Seniot. The show is INTO THE WOODS. She was cast as Jack's Mother. Here is the email I got yesterday . . .
Once again, ******* has come up short.
Thank you for instilling such a great sense of confidence and value in her and her skills.
We really appreciate all you've done for her and are particularly excited that our Thanksgiving holiday has gotten off to such a great start!
lovingly yours,
******
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Jason Peck
St. Luke's School
New Canaan CT
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