Elis,
Congratulations! Being inducted into your Thespian troupe is truly an honor, reflective of much hard work on your part.
YOU did that. Be proud of that work - you're far from being a "newbie" just by doing that work alone. But in regard to feeling like those upperclassmen are more confident and experienced... In some ways, they are. They've had the time to work through the nerves and to learn how to make bold acting choices or execute a really amazing lighting design... or whatever it is. And they've been friends for longer, so they have built relationships. But that doesn't mean there's not a place at the table for
you. Be excited to work with your peers. Watch them. Listen to them. Learn from them. Let them challenge you and elevate you to their level. You'll probably make mistakes and look silly in front of them at some point. And that's part of it. The best learning experiences come from big, silly, ridiculous mistakes. Laugh at yourself. And your classmates will support you and laugh with you and then next time, you'll get it right and they'll cheer you on. You're getting an experience many freshmen don't get and it will make you better.
You're exactly where you need to be doing exactly what you need to do. Silence the little voice inside your head that says you're the outsider. You're not. You're in, my friend. (BTW - this feeling follows you around into adulthood. You just learn to push through it and tell that little voice to be quiet.)
If you're seeking ways to engage with your older peers outside of acting work (like in conversation), remember this: Everyone loves to talk about themselves. A great way to start a conversation is to ask a question. And then really
listen to the answer. You'll find common ground. Perhaps ask them about their experience in their first show at your school.
I wish you so much success and happiness, Elis! You're going to have a great time in the musical!
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Matt Curtis
Content & Marketing Director
Educational Theatre Association
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Original Message:
Sent: 03-09-2022 09:49
From: Elis Mosteller
Subject: Newly Inducted
Hello! I'm about to be inducted officially to the Thespian Society in a few days, at my school's honor night. I also recently got cast in our spring musical. But I';m a freshman, and I don't relay know anyone- I have to admit, its kind of terrifying. Everyone seems so much more talented, so much more confident and experienced than me, and I don;t know how to put myself out there- I relay want this, I've been dreaming of being a part of a theatre troupe for years. Any advice for how I can become more a part of my troupe and less of the new guy?
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Elis Mosteller
Carrollton High School
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