Hi Dan,
This is an incredibly sensitive subject, and I applaud your bringing it to the forum. I feel strongly that, as white-identified teachers, it is our responsibility to prioritize the experience and points of view of our students of color. And when you say that some people find the depiction of Asians to be racist to the point that they may withdraw from the play, I'm reading into that statement that those people are possibly your Asian students (or students from other marginalized communities). If that's the case, you may have to ask some hard questions of yourself and your students, and be willing to hear the answers: Is the learning moment provided by a racist depiction or statement the actual intent of the script (like Lindner in Raisin in the Sun), or is it really about mining the comic potential of a racist stereotype (which some argue is the case in Millie)? Do your students of color feel that audiences are going to get something important from this depiction, or is it a laugh at their expense and in which they are being asked to take part? Does it create an internal conflict for students of color in which they feel that they are appropriating or misrepresenting themselves and their culture?
Finally, rather than explaining to your students why this content is acceptable, you may need to be ready to listen to them explain why, in fact, it is not.
I hope this is helpful. Let us all know how the conversation develops.
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Bryce Cahn
Theatre Arts Teacher
Tompkins Square Middle School
New York NY